This question is for both Man & Lady i need an opinion?

would you get mad if you lady/man went trough you stuff. I'm a guy by the way I have been with my girl for almost 2 years & never cheated on hur i used to live in NC but now i live with hur in Wisconsin i have no family here no Friends nothing the only thing i got is my privacy would you get mad if she/he went trough it all the time. Honest answers what would you do.